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Some of my friends, they got pregenant by accidently after theri landing, so only one of a couple can work, then the other only relax, and wait for delivery. In this case, if the workign one has an IT job, then life here is okay, otherwise, it's hard.
Other friends who have other little kids as old as 1-3 years, so almost all of them left their kids in China. Then after 1-2 years, after their lives become more stable, they will take their kids back to Canada. I don't like this style.
The third style is, one party got an IT job, the spouse study as part time, and their parents are here, helping them to take care of their kids. It's safe and good for both kids and parents. But u have to stay here for some time to sponsor ur parents to come.
The forth style is, some people send their kids to the day care, when their kids are only half year old! How come? I don't like it, but to them, they don't have other choices.
The fifth is, one friend of mine, has a good job in China, before she got the LP, she was crazy about canada, but after she got the LP, the more she knows canada, the more she knows how hard life in canada is, comparing with China, she began to make a decision that, she will give up it. So now she is canada to wait for delivery, and she didn't quit her job, her baby will get canadian passport as she/he was born here, then, she will go back to china wih her husband.
Okay, u can have all the choices, but before u make any decision, pls think it over, then make a decision. Remember, everything has two sides, good and bad. Dont' worry too much, as u are still young! Believe me.
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