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I feel so sorry for this husband. 5 or 6 years ago, I would say divorce her and find some girl who really cares you and know how to protect your dignity as a man.
But now, as a newly married wife, I know it is very difficult to make such a decision, especially when you are not sure whether you could find one who is much bette than her after your divorce.
I can really understand how frustrated you are feeling.
Go and find your own happiness, when she complains again, tell her:
"I am this kind of person, you can never change me. Take me as what I am or leave me. "
If you are serious when you say the above things, she would be frightened by your attitude, for you have never been brave enough to do so.
Be honest with you, I am somewhat like your wife in my own marriage. Why I am always complainging is because that I am still dreaming a much more excellent man, though I am married.
We quarrelled a lot and of cause suffered a lot.
ANyhow, this is the way marriage is. Just take it easy and find your own
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