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As she has been married, can she tell who she loves more, u or her husband?
If it's u, u still have chance, don't u?
If it's her husband, ur promise, ur oiginal plan can't be realized any more, no matter how painful u are, u should face this fact. Then the only way u can kill ur pain, recover fr love shadow, and begin ur new life is, to leave her as soon as possible, as far as possibe. Believe me, time and distance will change everything.
First of all, u and she should talk seriously about this. She should be able to tell whom she loves better. Marriage is not everything. The most important thing is, what kind of life u want to choose. AS both of u are adults, U know u should be responsible for ur behaviors.
But I can tell that, to break a family is not an easy and good thing, as three of u will be hurted by this, for sure. Look ahead, the forest is so large, u are so young, won't be worried about love or partner. To her, as she choosed to marry that guy, she should have her own reasons, no matter she just wanted to make u regret it, or for her 3-minute intention. So, pls calm down.
I believe u will have ur own love again, for sure u can recover fr it as time being. I can fully understand ur pain now, but, it's just temporary. Time is the best doctor.
Good luck. ^_^
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