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Yes, I can feel how deep u love her, and how anxious u need her. I can totally understand. As I was mad for love before, I can understand the feeling becoming crazy. The feeling of losing the whole world, or the feeling of being fooled. I was so down not long time ago. Suffering fr love is the most painful thing in this world. I know, trust me.
But, I don't know how long have u been together, and how well u know each other. According to u, u said, u are the only one in this world who knows her best, and can give her good life. I know u can do everything for her, even for immigration, u applied for her, right? But how about her? Does she also know u well, understand u well? If so, why only some bad words can seperate u? She didn't trust u at all. Or, she didn't have enough confidences on u. On some sense, as she was crazy about going aborad, she's just using u as a tool to go aborad, sorry for so direct words. If I offended her, pls forgive me, as it's my feeling, maybe it's the truth. Do u think the love mixed with other target is a true love? Maybe she really needs partner, and her current husband can give her something, some feeling u can't give her. But u can't face this fact. Maybe he is the one she has been looking for.
I know u are stubbon, but, pls give a chance urself, or other good girl who is loving u but not letting u know. Game is over, for whatever reason, u, are a kind of loser. But it's not the end of the world, and u still own so many precious things, as u said, ur happy family, ur friends, ur colleagues, all the people who care u and wish u be happy. Now, u have the LP, which means u have more choices than others. U can go aborad, get a foreign degree, a citizenship, then u can choose staying or going back, after 4 years. U are still young. Don't be too naive to think about 50 or 60 years old. Especially to wait for sb. U can't even know what will happen tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow. So the only thing we can do is, to be healthy and happy everyday, enjoy everyday. Then u will not regret.
AS time being, u will have ur own love, which really belongs to u. Ur own girl, who will follow u wherever u go, will be with u no matter what happens. Believe me.
As u have LP now, don't just say giving up so easily, pls think it over. It's important for u. Don't just throw it away as a child. Though u are still young, I believe.
Oh, if my words can release a little pain fr u, I will be very happy. Because I really learn the painful feeling.
Though I have a final exam next Monday, I still spend time in writing these sentences, hope u be happy, really.
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