I just feel sad. As a single mother, you have to
carry more pressure for living the normal life.
One thing you must keep in mind, not everyone like
the chinese girl who you described. If you ask for
help, I do believe most of Chinese will help you to
go through the hardest life.
From my personal experience, most of Chinese I
met are very nice and want to help each other.
The only thing you need is asking. Don't be
so afraid to ask.