本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛We arrived Canada on May and my son is just 17.5 months at that time. Life is really hard at the beginning. It's hard to find a day care and we moved several times. At first, we lived in a friend's home for a couple of weeks in Toronto. Then we moved to London after my husband get an offer here. We sent my baby to day care in June and I begin to seek job. But I found a suitable job in Waterloo. So we decided to move to Waterloo and I take care of my baby while my husband was still in London, we just got a car and my husband have to drive to London everyday. Even my baby got sick after we sent him to day care and transfer him to another day care, he is much better now. I know there still be many difficulties for bringing a baby with us. I also feel helpless when my baby got sick. However, we passed the most difficult period.
I also have a friends who sre studying here, she and her husband both enter a master program. For almost one year, she and her husband take care their 2 years old son in turn because they don't trust the day care. Sometimes she thought she could not finish study. Now ger son is 4 and she will continue her Ph.D. program.
From my experience, If one can find a job quickly, and the other one like to stay at home to take care the baby or can also find a job quickly, you can bring your baby. Eventhough my baby is very naughty and let me angry sometimes, but it's so sweet just to look at him. I also heard some mother said they miss their baby very much. Everything will be better if you could pass the hardest beginning. Same for the baby.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net