Cassie你应该比wade小吧。说话比较冲。You and your husband will feel terribly lonely and sad when you get old. Other old people will have hope and have pride in their younger generation, while you have nothing to hope in your life, but to wait to die. 这一段如果是generally speaking 还是很有道理的，比如用在speech里面。但你想想如果有人冲着你和你先生这么说，可就够难听的。说话，哪怕是有道理的话，也要考虑你的听众的感受。所以我说你们俩这一仗是你开的头，而不是wade. 你可能都没意识到，也可能是我们的英文都还不够好的缘故。

wade你也就原谅她吧。别走了。