You'd better wait until your husband finds a good job.

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How old is your first kid now? If not too big, better wait for a while to have the second one.

As you said, you don't have much money and time. You will be much more constrained on money and time if you have a second one.

在物质上无条件地满足孩子当然不好,但是如果不能给孩子买些书,玩具,出去不能隔3叉5买麦当劳买点零食,总要提醒他/她那些东西很贵,小孩过地也不舒服。如果你现在的孩子是属于较舒服类,而且你也有精力和钱(每个月至少100多额外支出给小BB,如果请人看,更贵!!),可以考虑要第二个。否则老大会受苦的。

Enjoy what you have now, but of course hope you can enjoy more without having to sacrifice the first kid somehow.
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2001-6-13 -05:00

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