sometimes really do not understand how guys think... i was asked by a stranger "i want to be your lover, body and soul, will you be my lover?".... i guess you will know the answer right away if you ask a girl walking on the street the same question.."you are all messed up or insane .." that would be my answer too. LOVER... you CAN NOT ask for a LOVER..... it would be thousands of years of pray to get a chance to be near to the one you love ... A lover ! body and soul !... no idea how many years you have to pray to get a chance to meet your lover....just o meet her/him ...become her/his lover ... that is only something you can wish..keep it deep in your mind until the day comes...if the day comes...