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毛主席教导我们说：要感恩，不要抱怨；要勉励自己，不要苛求对方。

cca(不归的如来佛)
US president John Kennedy stole the idea and said: "Think not what your country can do for ya; think what you can do for your country!"

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. appealed:
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"I HAVE A DREAM.

I have a dream that one day on this family forum of Rolia the husbands and wifes will be able to treat each other as a real family -- without attaching conditions to their love.

I have a dream that instead of worrying about how to aspire their spouses into better ones in their self-serving standards, they will contemplating about how to become a better husband and wife themselves -- and in case they can't, at least leave their spouse more time and space.

I have a dream that every family will be a healing harbour instead of a battlefield. Don't make war, make love!
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Last Updated: 2010-6-22
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  • 枫下家园 / 幸福家庭 / 毛主席教导我们说：要感恩，不要抱怨；要勉励自己，不要苛求对方。 -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-22 {889} (#6140249@0)
    US president John Kennedy stole the idea and said: "Think not what your country can do for ya; think what you can do for your country!"

    Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. appealed:
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    "I HAVE A DREAM.

    I have a dream that one day on this family forum of Rolia the husbands and wifes will be able to treat each other as a real family -- without attaching conditions to their love.

    I have a dream that instead of worrying about how to aspire their spouses into better ones in their self-serving standards, they will contemplating about how to become a better husband and wife themselves -- and in case they can't, at least leave their spouse more time and space.

    I have a dream that every family will be a healing harbour instead of a battlefield. Don't make war, make love!
    "
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    • Are you OK? -thornthorn(Holy Moly); 2010-6-22 (#6140257@0)
      • Yes. Are you?:-) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-22 (#6140313@0)
        • Not really. Too hot in the downtown CORE. Seeing so many cops makes my eyes tired.... -thornthorn(Holy Moly); 2010-6-22 (#6140335@0)
          • just watch, don't feed them. -coolmao(酷猫*Zensunni); 2010-6-22 (#6140345@0)
            • No for sure. there are poeple will. -thornthorn(Holy Moly); 2010-6-22 (#6140436@0)
    • 你想自欺欺人？ -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-24 (#6144889@0)
      • Are you OK? -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-24 (#6145163@0)
        • are you really ok...... ...... ??? ??? -oktalk(oktalk); 2010-6-24 (#6145229@0)
          • Is oktalk ok:-)? -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-24 (#6145280@0)
    • haha. That is so cool and so funny. " I have a dream........self-serve ......... making love instead of making war. -hotmoon(梵高的耳朵); 2010-6-24 (#6145239@0)
    • 其实不让家人吵架就是犯罪，毒素需要有渠道发泄出去。 -mikesmith(老猫); 2010-6-24 (#6145255@0)
      • 老猫有此经验？ -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-24 (#6145278@0)
      • Reasonable. Everyone needs to vent -- but it may not be a good idea to pick the loved one as washroom though. :-) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 (#6146045@0)
        • Does it mean that if you picked someone to vent, this person is not your loved one? -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-25 (#6146062@0)
          • I would picked myself -- self-healing when I am feeling down/blue. All that requires is to be let alone for some moments. -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 (#6146502@0)
            • Go to a buddhist temple to pray in peace would be a good solution too:-). -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 {72} (#6146513@0)
              Even though your humble Buddha is likely to be asent at those times. :-)
            • 你拉倒吧。VENT啥意思？let me tell ya: a point where magma penetrates the Earth's surface and becomes lava. 这玩意儿不带自产自销的。 -golfwood(Golf); 2010-6-25 (#6146576@0)
              • Are you OK? -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 (#6146680@0)
        • 有的人在外面好得很，可是对家里人不好，理由是白天装了一天了为什么回到家还要装，还有的人在外面很横，可是对家里人好得不得了。是天生的吗？ -thronhillwood(thornhillwood); 2010-6-25 (#6146102@0)
          • This nonsense reasoning has been spreading much faster than I thought. :-) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 (#6146497@0)
            • 你的nonsense reasoning指的是什么？ -thronhillwood(thornhillwood); 2010-6-25 (#6146526@0)
          • 同感！十几年来观察，有这现象，不一定100%， 但站绝大部分。也许每个人都要找到发泄自己或显示自己能力的地方吧！ -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-25 (#6146520@0)
            • (#6146497@0) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 (#6146551@0)
          • 没错就是天生的。对家里人横的都是诺夫，有种的都只对别人横。 -golfwood(Golf); 2010-6-25 (#6146571@0)
            • Chinese invented the terms "懦夫" and "悍妇" because they considered these odd ones. On the other hand, people seldom complained about "悍夫" or "懦妇". :-) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-25 {59} (#6146709@0)
              Like it or not -- it makes sense -- Hormone determines. :-)
              • 歪理 -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-25 (#6147074@0)
    • 俺也来一段 :) -rainbow_bridge(过桥啦); 2010-6-25 {327} (#6147301@0)
      Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
      Love the people who treat you right.
      Forget about the ones who don't.
      Believe everything happens for a reason.
      If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands.
      If it changes your life, let it.
      Nobody said life would be easy.
      They just promised it would be worth it.
      • The best one I ever see. Thanks for sharing. -lily66(lily); 2010-6-26 (#6147921@0)
      • Well said! -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-26 (#6147928@0)
    • 牛人英文家常理短，没读，支持贴 -oldstone(西风瘦燕子肥); 2010-6-27 (#6148940@0)
      • That English is GOOD. -mikesmith(老猫); 2010-6-27 (#6148943@0)
        • 读了，本不想动脑子的，，果然是牛人啊，他是上海人吧 -oldstone(西风瘦燕子肥); 2010-6-27 (#6148964@0)
          • Just curious, how did I earn the label? :-) -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-27 (#6149035@0)
            • 前不久看到一片文字要和上海人做朋友等文字，说上海人会一分不少的拿到所有政府的福利，英文能力也是比其他的地方来的人进化的最好最快，融入社会最好，你不就是很符合这个框框阿 -oldstone(西风瘦燕子肥); 2010-6-27 (#6149047@0)
              • 您太抬举上海人了：-） -spirit10(虚无缥缈); 2010-6-27 (#6149110@0)
              • 捧得我忍不住拿上海话夸你一句：。。。港督！ -cca(不归的如来佛); 2010-6-27 (#6149265@0)
    • 最擅长斗争的老毛何时说这样的话了，把斗死人还没完，还要纠其祖孙三代，继续斗争。他这种用嘴杀人的刽子手，说几句虚伪的善话，你都当真，那你可以拜我为活菩萨，因为我比毛就象天和地的差别。 -rogercb(蜗牛先生); 2010-6-29 (#6153810@0)

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