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谢谢您，到ihhp.com测试了我的EQ

downtownmouse(paintingmusic)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Your Score: 49
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Congratulations! You have very high emotional intelligence. This is good news! EQ counts for twice as much as IQ and technical skills combined in determining who will be a star performer. Your level of EQ likely has been and will be a driver of your high performance for years to come. Areas to work on: While you are doing well - don't forget to take time out of your busy day-to-day activities to stop and reflect on what brings you the greatest meaning in your life. If we fail to do this on a regular basis, we risk becoming tranquilized by the trivial. Sedated by the small details. Yes, deadlines need meeting and goals must be achieved. But if we are working toward goals that are not in alignment with our key values and greater purpose, we face becoming hostile and cynical - losing the reason we are doing 'all of this' in this first place! This translates into less joy and enthusiasm for our work - resulting in a diminished ability to be effective, at ease, and on purpose. As William James said: I have no doubt whatever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness... much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger... We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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Last Updated: 2011-9-20
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  • 枫下拾英 / 人生足迹 / 不惑多年的我于中秋之际感悟一把人生的意义。。 -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-12 {810} (#6910115@0)
    人生的意义是什么？我的总结就是：适应并融入社会，同时务实地坚持理念。身边有亲朋好友认为你活得值，不论平凡或是艰险你都可以倚靠。你既容易相处，又值得尊重。而且，你有自己的感情寄托。

    记得中学时代，我和大多数同龄人都被洗脑熏陶，人生的意义绝对跳不出“读书学习”：学好数理化，走遍天下都不怕。这个单纯的“挖掘智商”的观念影响深远，中学要看高分，考好大学；大学要考名校研究生，分配好工作；研究生要多出论文，找高薪大公司。而人生中其它东西，基本都被忽略尘封。

    十六年前因为偶然的契机，我积累的这种单纯的“人生理念”彻底崩溃，人生观得到一次大清洗，生命重新洗牌。虽然迷惑和挣扎了近千个日夜，同一起跑线的其他人相比，我被落下相当大距离。可是我最终的感觉是前所未有的踏实。直面万事开头的艰难，调整坚守自己的希望和标准，努力博采众家之长，在情商管理上做自己的领袖，相信机会终究会光顾善良而勤奋的人。

    写于中秋之夜、生日之前
    • 哦， 生日快乐：） -pituoxie(皮皮); 2011-9-12 (#6910128@0)
      • 早了些。不过还得谢谢小皮！ -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-12 (#6910136@0)
    • 恭喜 -firetrain(火车头); 2011-9-12 (#6910686@0)
    • 生日快乐！ 个人认为对自我的肯定还是应该建立在内在价值评价系统上。适应社会是人的社会属性的发展，坚持内在的自我才不会随波逐流。同样珍贵啊！ -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-18 (#6924307@0)
      • 谢谢楼上两位。这两方面我都提到，但我个人认为第一点更重要些，尤其在适应一个新的社会的阶段。只要不是失去自我，人应该最大限度地适应其他人(宰相肚里。。。) -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-18 (#6924332@0)
        • " 只要不是失去自我，人应该最大限度地适应其他人(宰相肚里。。。) " 修养极高！ -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-18 (#6924412@0)
          • 我的理想境界而已，还是有差距。最近听了ihhp.com总裁Bill Benjamin关于情商(Emotional Intelligence)的演讲，十分有益，强烈推荐。 -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-18 (#6924452@0)
            • 谢谢您，到ihhp.com测试了我的EQ -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-20 {1545} (#6930859@0)
              本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Your Score: 49
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              Congratulations! You have very high emotional intelligence. This is good news! EQ counts for twice as much as IQ and technical skills combined in determining who will be a star performer. Your level of EQ likely has been and will be a driver of your high performance for years to come. Areas to work on: While you are doing well - don't forget to take time out of your busy day-to-day activities to stop and reflect on what brings you the greatest meaning in your life. If we fail to do this on a regular basis, we risk becoming tranquilized by the trivial. Sedated by the small details. Yes, deadlines need meeting and goals must be achieved. But if we are working toward goals that are not in alignment with our key values and greater purpose, we face becoming hostile and cynical - losing the reason we are doing 'all of this' in this first place! This translates into less joy and enthusiasm for our work - resulting in a diminished ability to be effective, at ease, and on purpose. As William James said: I have no doubt whatever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness... much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger... We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
              • 没注意那里还可以测试啊。很好，我也要测测。 -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-21 (#6931597@0)
              • I got 48. I think it's a fair result, even though it's only a self assessment - I remained conservative on many answers (not stretching the score). -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-21 (#6932570@0)
                • 47， 还好。谢谢。 -firework111(烟花); 2012-1-16 (#7216591@0)
            • 以前觉得自己肯定很低的，现在看来是提高了:-) -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-20 (#6930885@0)
    • 感悟好，踏实好，不过太迎合外界会活的很辛苦 -fly_universe(飞越时空); 2011-9-18 (#6924334@0)
      • 迎合当然太消极，应该是积极配合互动。另外一味强调自我常常最后让你活得更累。当然我的话更多是针对我自己。 -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-18 (#6924365@0)
        • +1 -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-18 (#6924417@0)
    • 苦海无边，回头是岸~~~~同感！ -passer(匆匆过客); 2011-9-19 (#6927970@0)
      • 费解！难道我看到无边苦海了吗？我怎么搞的啥时候就回头了捏？ -hsl(胡司令); 2011-9-21 (#6931585@0)
        • Hahahaha,so funny -jessicalu(风中的承诺); 2011-9-21 (#6932940@0)
          • 让您这么开心，我有种雷锋做好事的甜蜜感。。 -hsl(胡司令); 2011-10-6 (#6970096@0)
      • 换个角度看人生 -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-21 {102} (#6932933@0)
        我哲学老师问过一个问题，唐憎取经的真经到底是什么？

        并不是最后的那些经文啊！

        而是那九九八十一难！
      • Erikson's psychosocial theory essentially states that each person experiences eight 'psychosocial crises' (internal conflicts linked to life's key stages) which help to define his or her growth and personality. -downtownmouse(paintingmusic); 2011-9-21 (#6932989@0)
    • 人生最重要的是feel good。feel good 才能有好的self image, 世界都是self image的reflection。 -fatbean(内固精神 外示安逸); 2011-9-21 (#6932611@0)
    • 人要反思，人要自省，但是一干子把苦练几十年的武功全废也不至于吧，千万不能娶了媳妇忘了娘啊，尽管娘有老又丑有封建又糊涂。 -andyhome(大扎啤); 2011-9-21 (#6933205@0)

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