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枫下家园 / 人到中年 / 你们打算在这里养老吗?
-torscy(torscy);
2019-11-25
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当我们老到了那个程度,除了富翁,在哪里养老,很大程度上取决于住哪里能cover 我们的医疗费用。
-mikesmith(老猫);
2019-11-25
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楼主贴的这些都是经济条件比较好的老人。子女条件也不错,要求比较高对养老公寓比较挑剔。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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打算。
-thegirlbefore(Jane);
2019-11-25
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打算不老,这样就不用养了,省钱
-gavin_1000(风过无痕);
2019-11-25
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可能没机会变老了
-somepeople(不要PM我,就不改);
2019-11-25
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吃了啥仙丹啦
-childfirst(一杯凉白开);
2019-11-25
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你很积极的思维啊,难道就不能未老先衰了?
-somepeople(不要PM我,就不改);
2019-11-25
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俺是很positive嘀,本来还打算向你求两粒仙丹呢。😁
-childfirst(一杯凉白开);
2019-11-25
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白开,你太逗了。
-troyd(聊商 250);
2019-11-25
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俺主要是想求两粒。😀
-childfirst(一杯凉白开);
2019-11-25
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另一粒会给谁?
-gr8(中年人);
2019-11-25
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看看51的文章,养老院有权不许子女探视。
-blanc(no matter what);
2019-11-25
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私立的。公家的便宜的那种没权。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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Incorrect. All nursing homes are private. some of them are subsidized by government others are not. This type of cases mostly likely happens in those subsidized nursing home. The Expensive ones are way more friendly, for sure.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Your English is amazing😝
-wuxin123(无心123);
2019-11-25
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sorry i have no way to type Chinese at work. please forgive me
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Apology accepted😂
-wuxin123(无心123);
2019-11-25
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Be sure you've thoroughly understood the difference between privately owned and publicly funded, before you got to this part.
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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I dealt with those already. Nothing owned by government. those "publicly funded" ones are subsidized by government or tax payers.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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也说明费用不是子女付的 -- 金主当然有说话权。
-235(吃豹子);
2019-11-25
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It is so sad and so true. Many nursing homes in Canada are like jails. I am thinking to have my final settlement in China.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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+1
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准备走杨老汉的路?话说回来杨真是人生赢家!
-hhhh8888(Woo);
2019-11-25
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你这么反中的还要回中国去养老?
-ebusiness(水到渠成);
2019-11-25
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You are barking up the wrong tree!
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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+1
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云南如何?
-gavin_1000(风过无痕);
2019-11-25
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交通医疗可能那什么。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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都是兩個evil取其輕的選擇而已。老到一定程度需要人24小時伺候,不去養老院只能給子女增加負dan.
-letempsdescerises(飞雪连天射白鹿);
2019-11-25
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+1
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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难道这些养老院都是自费的?
-troyd(聊商 250);
2019-11-25
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打算吧。
-simplename(Deplorable Trump Fan);
2019-11-25
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不了解这里的具体过程,我工作的老人院也曾报过警,因为家属无理取闹到每一个工作人员都忍无可忍了。
-zilch(balabala);
2019-11-25
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楼主说的是那种中高档退休公寓全部自费的那种。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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No, it is a nursing home, not a senior apartment.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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You may also have to understand the difference between privately owned retirement home and ordinary senior apartment with this in mind that their clientele may strikingly differ.
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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不知道怎么样才能去台湾常住养老,这才是我理想中的养老地方。
-jianghongca(慎独);
2019-11-25
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有钱就行啊。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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good idea,never thought about it
-doris99(Doris);
2019-11-25
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台东很漂亮,物价也低,适合养老
-benii(惊坐起);
2019-11-25
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喜欢台北附近的小镇子。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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风景好安静我就喜欢
-doris99(Doris);
2019-11-25
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me too,唯一的问题是那里地震太频繁,否则是天堂
-benii(惊坐起);
2019-11-25
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海啸台风也挺麻烦。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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Me too😁
-hotmoon(梵高的耳朵);
2019-11-25
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极端个例,新闻有讨论。私家养老院国内得交十几万,几十万押金,月费1万多。这里不用押金,月费5千加币左右。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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Not rare.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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这中间肯定有原因。我朋友父母在养老院的,女儿天天去看望。
-newyearpig(小猪);
2019-11-25
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对,绝大多数儿女没这问题,所以暂时没引起政府高度重视。太普遍太过分政府会干预。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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A friend of mine told me his friend's grandmother died due to staff neglect. Almost impossible to sue that nursing home, the family were offered some compensation to hush it up.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Sad
-letempsdescerises(飞雪连天射白鹿);
2019-11-25
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Sad and also strikingly decorated with politicians' incapability to keep their promise, whatever they've promised.
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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You may need to have a look at Long-Term Care Homes Act effective since 2007, and Retirement Homes Act since 2010, which aim to ensure resident safety..
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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Thanks, will do. Two years ago, I had a chat with the LHIN case manager who was almost at the retirement age. When asked if she wanted to end up herself at a LTC home, she said Hell No!
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Of course, nobody wanna end up that way, but truth is money talks.
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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人老了,很可怜。没有儿女在身边,就只能这样。养老院不能要求太高。去过一个还不错的养老院,也是暮气沉沉,一天也呆不下去。如果在那里工作,是种折磨。所以我父母,我肯定不会送去养老院,可以申请护工来家里。
-newyearpig(小猪);
2019-11-25
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$35 per hour for in-home personal care rate.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Seniors are more likely to be abused in home care arrangement where there is no supervision.
-letempsdescerises(飞雪连天射白鹿);
2019-11-25
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安上摄像头,24小时监控!!!
-gavin_1000(风过无痕);
2019-11-25
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不是最好的解决方法。即使如此仍有虐待发生。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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Then the children spend 24 hours to review the tape? Some abuse may not leave any trace such as giving food/water in an unclean plate/cup etc.
-letempsdescerises(飞雪连天射白鹿);
2019-11-25
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Hard to say. In the news last year, a registered nurse killed 8 seniors at nursing homes.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Sad thing is that, if it happened in a private home, it might never be discovered...
-letempsdescerises(飞雪连天射白鹿);
2019-11-25
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I heard such a story. an elderly died by natural course and was found a while later by the neighbor. his son came back even later from another province .
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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True that home care setting may more conveniently put seniors at risk, but on the other hand appears more homey.
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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For Chinese-speaking?
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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for licensed PSW. You may get Chinese-speaking PSW service, no difference in the rate.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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Someone told my mom that she got a Chinese-speaking PSW for only 31 per hour.
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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very possible. depends on individual organizations and how much/what type of care needed. you may find as cheaper as $28 per hour. In general, a licensed PSW gets paid at $23~25 per hour.If a facility charge you for only $28 per hour, they pay the PSW $18.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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嗯,多赚点钱。
-newyearpig(小猪);
2019-11-25
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way to go
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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请人+自己照顾,最后的日子也没几年
-newyearpig(小猪);
2019-11-25
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以后大家在养老院再见
-almond2(almond);
2019-11-25
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sure, see you then. :-)
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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精确地说在不同养老院微信联系。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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不到老糊涂了坚决不去
-gavin_1000(风过无痕);
2019-11-25
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哎,你不老糊涂都不够格申请排队噢。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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不用上肉联了,直接互掐,民主派一拨,远程粉红一拨
-vicky2005(孩子她爹);
2019-11-25
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LOL
-almond2(almond);
2019-11-25
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the best option, as always, to live with your children.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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But children don’t want to live with you, sad.
-thegirlbefore(Jane);
2019-11-25
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What can you do? Think positively in this way: once after you die, although the dying process is lengthy and unbearable, you will end up in the holly heaven.
-kudos(苦读士);
2019-11-25
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剩下一个的话,这是最好的选择。如果到后来失智不能自理,可以请24小时护士,也可以去养老院,,我们街上有个老太太就是24小时护士。
-lifeisgoodd(三万万年之小仙);
2019-11-25
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到实在动不了,来二十片安眠药。与己与人都是—种解脱。也对人类社会做出最后的贡献。
-hhhh8888(Woo);
2019-11-25
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别那么悲观。多锻炼健康饮食,越来越多老人到70多还不要拐杖和照顾。
-beyondsummer(@);
2019-11-25
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就我个人来说,我觉得最好都不要等到实在动不了。
-rainclear(雨澄);
2019-11-25
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