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To introduce yourself and build a small pleasant conversation

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My name is @@@ and I work at @@@ as a @@@. Before that I was living overseas in @@@/studying at @@@. I studied @@@/I was trained in @@@/trained as a @@@.

It is very interesting that you mentioned @@@, because I also @@@ and I think @@@@@@@@.

For me, this is a nice occasion to meet the experienced and new CGAs and get to know some peers in person. Big congratulations to you in @@@.

How do you like this gala? What brings you to Canada/an accounting career? What is your outlook on the profession in the current economy? Are you planning on a winter vacation? Are you living with your family in Toronto? What is your academic background if I may ask? (These questions are only for your careful selection only depending on the rapport established)

It has been very nice meeting you and getting to know you. Here is my name card. Hope we can keep in contact and again congratulations and best wishes to you. Hope you enjoy your evening!

Make the conversation not too short nor too long. Leave at the necessary point and talk to others as many as possible.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • CGA晚会二三思
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛首先热烈祝贺新认证的CGA同学们!CGA学习考证看来是个考十八般武艺的艰苦漫长的过程,每个人都应该非常骄傲!恭喜!

    我还想提一个友情提示。找个伴儿,大家一起去晚宴的心情我完全理解,在自己的中国人圈子里首先交流交流,温馨又放松,是个很好的开端。

    CGA这一年难得的机会,不妨也试着"放眼全场",和其它种族的同行交流交流。一来锻炼英语,二来锻炼自己的社交能力,三来也可以铺铺人脉,为以后进一步发展扩展思路。

    中国女性文静淑贤,是好事,但关键时刻最好也要具备良好的社交能力,别在大的场合自始至终受着自己的中国朋友讲中文。一来显得没有场合意识,把一次全行业的庆贺社交活动只是当作一次与中国朋友吃饭聊天的小团体机会,好象当别的人群透明;二来没有必要被别的种族误解,觉得到哪儿中国人都只屑与中国人交流;三来,每出席这样的场和,只要给自己定一个小小的目标:多认识一位有趣的异族同行,多学一项社交礼仪或多学会一项small talk, 多一项观察别人更妥帖的礼仪,才不枉花那个时间精力。

    有几点小小tips, 从个人角度谈一下,欢迎不同意见。学会主动介绍自己,主动介绍自己的人让人觉得以对方为贵,给人好印象,也让别人了解自己,然后再询问别人的情况。我经场看到同胞只问别人名字出处,却没有接着主动介绍自己,可能大家都无意冒犯,但效果总是显得很没礼貌,显得己贵人贱。

    吃东西喝酒意思意思即可,吃饭啥时都有的吃,这样的聚会机会难得,尤其是中国人以外的圈子。吃完了东西再开口说话。我们中国人不讲究吃饭闭起嘴吧吃,我自己经常也忘记,自己圈子没关系,不过到场合上尽量别忘记。喧哗之类的事,我想就不用提醒了。

    尽量避免用全部的时间谈工作,谈考试。想一想自己这个夏天有些什么愉快有趣的事情可以描述分享,避免负面语气态度和观点,使谈话愉快是社交良好的要领。

    提高聆听的技巧,对别人的谈话要有小小echo, 方为礼仪,同意?理解?同感? 要又所acknowledge, 容易打开顺畅的局面。

    女人衣服,珠宝,孩子,稍谈即可,不宜滔滔不绝,让人以为你的眼界或兴趣就这点。

    来自大国的人,不妨摆出海纳百川的风度来?更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 俺脚着没什么意思。就一件事:在台上喊自己的名字, 再加个CGA。 吃的一般,要是一家人吃就更亏了。
    • 提醒得好!
    • 说得好. 
    • 说的真好,顶。
    • I have to say that it is a really great reminder!!! It has been a long time didn't see your post... we like to read more of your post...
    • 借鉴了,请问在这种Semi- Formal的场合自我介绍有什么套路?比如名字,职位公司,之后说什么呢??
      • To introduce yourself and build a small pleasant conversation
        本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My name is @@@ and I work at @@@ as a @@@. Before that I was living overseas in @@@/studying at @@@. I studied @@@/I was trained in @@@/trained as a @@@.

        It is very interesting that you mentioned @@@, because I also @@@ and I think @@@@@@@@.

        For me, this is a nice occasion to meet the experienced and new CGAs and get to know some peers in person. Big congratulations to you in @@@.

        How do you like this gala? What brings you to Canada/an accounting career? What is your outlook on the profession in the current economy? Are you planning on a winter vacation? Are you living with your family in Toronto? What is your academic background if I may ask? (These questions are only for your careful selection only depending on the rapport established)

        It has been very nice meeting you and getting to know you. Here is my name card. Hope we can keep in contact and again congratulations and best wishes to you. Hope you enjoy your evening!

        Make the conversation not too short nor too long. Leave at the necessary point and talk to others as many as possible.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • check your PM please. thanks.
    • 我是新CGA,上个月骨折了,到时候 可能还不会全好 ,可以不去10号的晚会吗。
      • you do not have to go. the certificate will be mailed to you.