她是我第一个也是唯一一个女朋友...never thought about your question.. Nope, I am sure she can find someone as good, if not better, than me...
-mikesmith(老猫);
2012-1-11(#7203651@0)
You don't have anything for yourself. It's quite sad.
-emilyaugust(ej);
2012-1-11(#7203660@0)
long time ago, I told my mom I don't need to get married. All I need are a book case, a VCR, and a pentium computer.....
-coolmao(酷猫*Kralizec);
2012-1-11(#7203650@0)
我上中学的时候,我妈说: "你有那么多这个姐那个妹的,是不是打算娶回来一个呀?"... 我说:“我要先立业,后成家”.. Now that I thought about it, it was probably because I knew my answer would please her..
-mikesmith(老猫);
2012-1-11(#7203662@0)
It is sad that you live for others rather than for yourself
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2012-1-11(#7203664@0)
for some people, the purpose of life is to observe and serve others. And they feel honored to do so.
-coolmao(酷猫*Kralizec);
2012-1-11(#7203670@0)
if it is always like that, never for himself/herself, it is still unbelievable. Everyone has his/her own desires, no matter they are high or low.
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2012-1-11(#7203861@0)
I am sorry to say It is sad that you have no identity...
-jesse_dd(紫飞鱼);
2012-1-11(#7203695@0)
Truly admirable! ... and I guess the only reason why you decide to spend so much time on Rolia was because we all need you so much eh. Thank you, we do. :-)
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2012-1-11(#7203698@0)
Mikesmith's point is that 利人=>利已. This would be a perfect state for the society -- but the world today is not ready for it. If mikesmith has been able to unfrustratedly pursuing this thus far, he must have been quite blessed.
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2012-1-11(#7203754@0)
I truly admire mikesmith as a great Taoist -- but unfortunately not a lot of people understand him in this ever materialized/tainted world.
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2012-1-11(#7203744@0)
don't tell me you’ve never wanted anything in return, other than the satisfaction of being needed
-uptowngirl(sweet November);
2012-1-11(#7203747@0)
I didn’t mean materials in return either. You give, you get. Their love and care, their faith in you and their heart. Give one chance that your beloved ones ever betrays you…..
-uptowngirl(sweet November);
2012-1-11(#7203772@0)
To make it more complicated -- what if one of your loved ones needs you to stop being needed by some other ones?
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2012-1-11(#7203809@0)
yes, u go to washroom with an iPad..........
-realrock888(隔壁张家老木匠);
2012-1-11(#7204014@0)
So all you did is to please everybody except yourself? Are you happy at all?
-femaleaquarius(水瓶女);
2012-1-11(#7203826@0)
most of the time, i am a happy man
-mikesmith(老猫);
2012-1-11(#7203833@0)
It's good if you are still happy to do whatever to please others. Otherwise, what you did could be the burden to your beloved ones. But remember you can't please everybody, so don't try too hard.
-femaleaquarius(水瓶女);
2012-1-11(#7203849@0)
I know my limit....
-mikesmith(老猫);
2012-1-11(#7203855@0)
Honestly it's not easy to be a guy like you. Be yourself, be happy! Good luck!
-femaleaquarius(水瓶女);
2012-1-11(#7203891@0)
Or what holds you together? and that without it you would fall apart ? Could the things that hold you together also hold you back in some ways? You never know.
-pochontas(见习爱神);
2012-1-11(#7204623@0)
A good post made me think. there are a lot of elements in this post. What is the purpose of life? happiness? sense of belonging? satisfaction?...'她是我第一个也是唯一一个女朋友', i guess it is rare to see a guy like you in today's society. however, you are NOT the only guy like that.:-)
'Is it sad? Is it good? Can it last?' i wish someone can tell me the answer,too.
Modern love is everywhere in today's society, with all social media and technology, what is the moral rule?
A post makes me think, but i still don't an answer myself.
-credit(淡如水);
2012-1-12{409}(#7204901@0)