不谈情,只说爱 情是精神的产物,跟灵魂为伍,要在特定的环境或情形下经过神经系统的催化作用方可产生,情属于精神世界里的奢侈品。
爱是物质的,是用行动体现出来的,空洞的爱就像是天空中漂浮的云彩美好但不实际,所以懂爱的人不轻易说出 I love you 而只说 I like you, 因为这爱里有承诺有责任。
理想的婚姻里应该是有情有爱,精神和物质的完美结合,什么都不缺。但现实的婚姻里有多少人是既有情又有爱呢?于是很多人不谈情只说爱,当然这爱应该是那份责任吧。
更有甚者把这个爱直接变成对老婆交公粮,对情人只做爱了。
于是就产生了一种境界,有爱无情:P -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-14不谈情,只说爱你想要啥:情, 爱, 爱情, 还是情爱? -raider(raider) 2014-9-16你说呢? 当然是有爱情亦或有情爱的男女关系了,但是我想要就会有吗? 所以得之我幸,不得我命。
如果在茫茫人海中能遇到那个彼此等了很久才出现的人,那就勇敢的去爱啊,管他是谁,我是单身我怕谁! :D
最差也要找个令自己赏心悦目的人给自己物质的爱吧,民以食为天,食色性也。 -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-16我认为你是对的 https://acmejoy.com/ https://acmejoy.com/ -qiangqiang9292(qiangqiang) 2021-1-14我认为你是对的I think they are inseparable and we can't really talk one thing without touching the other. People think differently, but I am sure you know what you are looking for. :) Passenger - The One You Love http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5550ip2rh-A -iamnotanangel(Wolf) 2014-9-16I think they are inseparable and we can't really talk one thing without touching the other. People think differently, but I am sure you know what you are looking for. :) Passenger - The One You LoveThanks! A nice one:) I'm trying to be the one who has reached to that "境界" of "有爱无情“, although it's hard for women to seperate feeling only enjoy sex itself, feeling obsessed really hurt! -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-16You know what you want but you cannot get it so still looking... Your posting are interesting but cannot meet the need from audience - "望梅不止渴“. Therefore nobody responds to it and it is just like you said "冷冷清清凄凄惨惨". :-) -raider(raider) 2014-9-17那就当自娱自乐吧,呵呵。再说表面的冷清不代表没有春泉暗流涌动哦!:P -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-17当然pm肯定不少了,但是春泉未必涌动,:p -kking(捣蛋) 2014-9-17要都涌动就麻烦了,成大熊猫了人见人爱,不 对,是见一个爱一个!:P -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-17Nothing wrong with having feelings. Men and women are not much different on this. With love, you feel hurt; without love, you feel a void inside you. If all you want is sex, it shouldn't be this difficult to find, should it? -iamnotanangel(Wolf) 2014-9-22That's true. You know me at this point but what I thought life can do nothing in finding true love, wasting hormone will be void both inside and outside, why don't we do "有爱无情” ?:) -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-23应该说只调情,不说爱:) -kking(捣蛋) 2014-9-17也可以呀,调情能提高工作效率:) -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-17调不好的话伤神 -kking(捣蛋) 2014-9-17哈哈,一看就是调的少呀,谁先伤神谁先S! -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-17调太多伤身:p -kking(捣蛋) 2014-9-17真的吗?我怎么越调越来精神呀,工作一天下来都不觉得累,很有动力健身美容购物,越活越年轻了:) -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-17王菲:用极端的情绪去抓住一个虚幻的概念,徒劳而绝望。因此要了解自我的虚幻本质,才有可能避免对它的执着吧。\想要彻底解忧,必须了解忧的本质,否则也只是在现象上做挣扎。了即解。 -kking(捣蛋) 2014-9-21菲姐说的很好!如果觉得在家吃面条拌西红柿酱好就真没必要下馆子去吃Pasta:-) -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-21请不要, 说那些
甜言和蜜语
那一句, 我爱你
我已经听腻
我愿意 用感觉
体味这情意
这份情 深几许
了然在心底
-- 龙飘飘.细细品味 -aaazzz0514(az) 2014-9-18嗯,很不错,谢谢! -jjflower(花儿) 2014-9-18只有情,没能爱的也是有的。 -smallniuge(书中自有颜如玉) 2014-10-26嗯,肯定有,帕拉图式?或者。。。 -jjflower(花儿) 2014-10-26淫欲,爱,依恋。 -hhyang(?!之WolfInSheepFlock) 2016-1-17这个贴子有些老了, 但是说的是实话,爱太重,真正懂的爱的人不会轻易说出口,懂爱的情人也不会轻易索取,因为情应该是愉悦的,轻松的。好情人知道正是因为爱给了对方太多压力,所以才有彼此。如果你有一个爱人要懂得感恩,她让你的存在不轻如鸿毛,但同样如果你有一个情人也应该感恩,她让你活地更坚强,更纯粹。 -meee(喧闹的牙齿) 2017-2-7老好帖要顶 -wtn(大队会计咸啫啫) 2018-9-13acmejoy.com -qiangqiang9292(qiangqiang) 2021-1-14Love or lust -doris99(智🐮) 2021-11-23七年前的帖子被你顶上来😅 lust 是什么意思 -smileface2020(笑脸) 2021-11-24花儿总结的非常清晰和到位。开课吧,我们共鸣 -111111(快乐老家) 2021-11-26