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何为优秀？

bmw6(bmw)

我的第一帖，“优秀男人，不会缺女人”惹来了一片争议。

尤其是几位跳出来说自己的学习，工作如何出色，特中国人的想法。

我觉得出色的男人是有故事的男人。我不上知天文，下知地理。也不会舞刀弄枪，谈文艺。更不会作诗。

但是我，在三句话之后，你会对我充满浓厚的兴趣。因为我经历过的，体会过的，见到过的，能讲的自己故事会吸引对方。

不要比学习，都不是学生了，谁还在乎？别比工作，天外有天，有什么好比的？人生阅历，大家都不一样，你自己就是一本书，一个故事。你既可以是部好莱坞大片，或是一部印度粗制滥造电影。

看完一部好电影，你会回味无穷，看完一部烂电影，你会觉得浪费时间金钱。我曾经认识过几个网友，但后来决定不见面，其中有为我哭过的，哪怕从来没见过我。

你是个什么样的电影呢？

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Last Updated: 2015-4-24

搬小板凳听宝马哥讲故事！鼓掌！ -arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]); 2015-4-24 (#21939@30)

我喜欢吹，所以我很优秀。 -mrniceguy(英雄无用武之地); 2015-4-28 (#22077@30)

说得好！每人都是一本书，当你用宽宏的胸襟向别人展现的时候，你就展现出一种美，一种力量，就能吸引到能看到这种美的人。这种展现的态度，也叫做”真“。每个人都有”真“的美，只要你知道如何展现。 -label(标签); 2015-4-24 (#21940@30)

你的意思是，现在的女人都喜欢看小人书？ -xeonoex(Less is more); 2015-4-24 (#21964@30)

Women love kids. If you can combine the freshness of kids with confident maturity, -label(标签); 2015-4-24 {227} (#21983@30)
you will attract women. Unfortunately people with less mind always tries to over-simplify things which lead to failure after failure in life, therefore they are full of frustrations that they are eager to find ways to vent out.

那就讲讲你的故事啊 -kking(捣蛋); 2015-4-24 (#21941@30)

：）你可真是自恋啊！ -iamnotanangel(Wolf); 2015-4-24 (#21945@30)

不自恋怎么被别人恋？你的评论很奇怪。 -bmw6(bmw); 2015-4-24 (#21947@30)

那我教你怎么讲故事。我也来一段。 -iamnotanangel(Wolf); 2015-4-24 {462} (#21949@30)
我女朋友，没说的，人见人爱。跟了我就一个月，一周３次，还不够！(加色情描写) 她说只有我能满足她，无论是视觉上，还是感觉上，她都不想别人了。我也不知道她为什么对我这么好。她漂亮，在大街上绝对９９％的回头率；家里特有钱。有１次，她为我割腕，说只要我不离开她，哪怕我有其他女朋友，她也不在乎。救护车来了，她也不走，非要我答应她再做一次爱。唉，多有情的妹子！

＝＝＝＝＝＝＝这是你讲故事

我讲同一故事，加一句：＂她上救护车后，得意地对我说＇想赖掉孩子，门都没有！＇＂

搬小板凳听楼上的二哥们拼故事！鼓掌ing -snakelady(蛇の传人); 2015-4-24 {42} (#21950@30)
宝马哥和狼哥加油哈，没用最精彩，只有更精彩

小心你狼哥开着宝马把你小板凳给轧了 -xeonoex(Less is more); 2015-4-24 (#21966@30)

逻辑混乱，你不是要走了吗？多说废话无益。奉劝一句，家里的事先照顾好了再出来混。你不是快单身，还没单身吗？有个妹妹叫俺现在出去喝咖啡，没事间和你玩耍。我说的你爱信不信。有一点我确信，我的自信阳光，给周围的美眉带来愉快而不是酸不溜秋的哈喇子。 -bmw6(bmw); 2015-4-24 (#21951@30)

哦，那赶紧去喝咖啡。我这也忙，三妹子打麻将（不是打麻雀），三缺一。说是吃得都准备好了。要是玩太晚了，就住那。 -iamnotanangel(Wolf); 2015-4-24 (#21953@30)

一个小毛孩子在大人面前显摆而已，不去理他他就安静了。显摆也分档次。“我有几百亿资产”和“李嘉诚刚借了我10亿”，都是显摆，哪个更有档次？ -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-24 (#21958@30)

李嘉诚刚借了我10亿我没给，我给比尔盖茨了。 -xeonoex(Less is more); 2015-4-24 (#21967@30)

还是别住那了，她们都来大姨妈了 -xeonoex(Less is more); 2015-4-24 (#21965@30)

哈哈，第二天狼哥嘴上全是血，成吸血鬼了 -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-24 (#21968@30)

冒着说“吃不着葡萄说葡萄酸”的危险，我想问：你周围的美眉都是些脑残吗？ -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-24 (#21959@30)

在脑残人眼里，其他人都是脑残。你说呢？从一开始就觉得你这个人心里阴暗。负能量到处散发，本来不想理你，你偏偏缠着我不放。唉，好好一边玩去。没工夫理你。 -bmw6(bmw); 2015-4-24 (#21969@30)

哈哈，你满满的正能量都是你从你LABEL哥身上吸精生成的吧？ -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-25 (#21970@30)
In a place full of morons, anyone smarter are targeted by morons. So that in the world of morons, a moron can believe he is the best. Do not try to bring moron out of his delusion, because it only attracts attacks. -label(标签); 2015-4-24 (#21980@30)

You've got it, Mr Moron. -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-24 (#21984@30)

I am indeed a moron to talk here. Thank you. -label(标签); 2015-4-24 (#21986@30)

客观的说，宝马哥还是蛮优秀的。可是这感情观和对待性的态度不敢认同。真正的好女人懂得珍惜自己，尊重自己，不会一见面就急不可耐的宽衣解带。大家看不起你上过的那些女人， -insane2011(happyforever); 2015-4-24 {54} (#21987@30)
其实跟你优秀的程度无关，只跟你们对待性的随意程度有关。

But I think bmw is not casual in sex. He just enjoys his single freedom. Most of sex took long time to get into. And discriminating against those women is not right. I respect those women, for their courage and sincerity. -label(标签); 2015-4-24 {924} (#21989@30)
Of course public opinion is something females have to consider, but public opinion should not be the barrier for females to pursue their happiness.

Actually in sex. females do not lose anything physical. Male lose sperms and energy. Males are the real loser in sex. This is why health advice for females always encourage sex while discourage males for sex.

Lots of judgments in life have no physical grounds, like females become dirty or low after having sex with men. The dirtiness and lowness are just feelings in observers' mind. They are the result of social upbringing.

Of course women had sex with many have higher chance to attract STD, but as long as they are careful and verified physically clean, I have no problem burying my face into one of the pussies which have already been visited by other men's dicks.

Discrimination based on women's chastity is a manifestation of male's sense of inferiority.
That's the difference between lust and love. But you got the point. You can buy lust but not love. -arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]); 2015-4-24 (#21992@30)
女人并不是是人就上。她们也有自己的矜持。也不是所有遇到的女人都会第一次见面就上床。话说回来了，就算第一次见面就上床，也不代表她们随便。 -bmw6(bmw); 2015-4-24 {360} (#21993@30)
其实，有些事情最好不要说的太清楚。她们在见我之前就做好上床的心理准备了。要达到这种心理程度，她们事先对我已经有了一定程度的了解。

再说了，女人也是人，有需要，有爱和被爱的要求。我尊重她们。敬佩为自己的性爱需要勇敢的跨出那一步。

性爱并不可耻。性爱很自然。可耻的是思想肮脏的人非要把性想的那么恶心。

我最反感的就是那些一边卫道士，一边对着AV打飞机的伪君子！

Agree! However their pathetic reaction is based on their ego-protective psychology. What else can they do? Cowards have to balance their mentality. Accepting one's inferiority is not an easy thing to do. Go easy with them. -label(标签); 2015-4-24 (#21996@30)

Gone Girl! -arfeifei(老顽童★[O|||||||O]); 2015-4-24 (#21954@30)
这故事讲得好。这才叫故事。wolf领先一分。 -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-24 (#21957@30)
LOL LOL -zuoyi(左翼); 2015-4-27 (#22037@30)

没看懂何谓优秀，倒是明白了何谓不优秀。 -canacana(luvme10der); 2015-4-24 (#21962@30)

现在流行审丑 -thewho(wolf); 2015-4-25 (#22017@30)
优秀不优秀都是给人看的,开心不开心是自己体味的. -summerhiking(8+8); 2015-4-28 (#22076@30)

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