If you have decided tobreak up already, then go ahead! This trip will distroy your family anyways. In another word, if you choose either way to distroy your family, why not deal it like a responsible man... leave some respect in her heart and in kids' heart, ... no matter what happens..
Hope you understand what I am talking about :)
Advice From Shou Nv
-dshi01(Swan Meat);
2010-10-4{338}(#9323@30)