如果你是男的，能为正当事业而努力，在需要你的时候能舍生赴义，比如当下的钓鱼岛耻辱，还会担心身边的美女们会缺吗。
如果你是女的，能为大事大非而明理，在甜言蜜语汤时能心明事理，什么帅哥啦性爱草包男，还须害怕关爱温存性感会少吗。

是要活在当下，但更要有大方向感。鄙视无能男，嘲笑自虐女啊！

Okay,
if you are gentleman and true man with ambitious/brave, I mind show/tell you how to address your sex thirty.
if you are nicelady and won't get loss with flirt, I would like to say you are pretty in and out.