本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1. He is not comfortable looking or he thinks I am not pretty enough to make him feel hard.

So it seems if he is comfortable looking, you will have sex with him. Whether he likes you or not and his capability of having a hard-on are his problems, not yours.

2. He is in a relationship while I do not and have no intention to ruin his family.

If he will make sure the relationship with you will not ruin his family, you will not have this concern. Again, it is his problem, not yours.

3. The risks of getting STD.

A lot of STD are undetected. The person carries them has no idea they has it. The risk of getting undetected STD is always there, even you date a single who is ready for marriage. The best you can do is to know and trust this man that if he knows, he tells you, then you take necessary precaution to proceed or withdraw from relationship. For those undetected STD, nobody has a solution unless you have no sex at all. But still, some STD can be contracted through non-sexual contacts. You are never safe.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net