本来我们的两次争执,尤其是第二次争执,完全是她的错误,讲起来她是没理的。我手里的证据告她ABUSE HER POWER 一点问题没有,而且我也做到仁至义尽,过后没有跟任何人提起,包括同事。她居然在背地里说恶人先告状告诉了我的领导。她正在试用期,我这种证据齐全的投诉对她一点好处也没有,我做人本着与人为善的原则,从来不愿意与人争执,怎么会遇到这么无耻不知好歹的人?
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{228}(#666958@65)
有一丁点的上下级别关系,我不是做很重要的工作啦。我们都是做销售的,我们两个一个小TEAM ,她是小头。没有EMAIL 往来,但是我有销售记录,证明我的销售额比她高,我该做的都做了,她没做。她要求我做的我也都做了,都有记录。但是有一天我把所有我能想到的事都做了,忘了一件。她来了去做那件事。我说:“WHY YOU JUST CAN’T LEAVE ME A NOTE IF YOU ALREADY KNOW?” 她说:“ WHY I HAVE TO LEAVE YOU A NOTE ?I T IS COMMON SENSE 。”当时我正在帮助客人,她让我停止帮助客人,把客人给她,做那个并不是很紧急的事。就凭这个,我足够投诉她ABUSE HER POWER
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{427}(#667030@65)
Yes she's obviously exercising her little superior power over you. I don't think you can do anything about it in terms of complaining to your boss. But I think you can talk to her face to face, just let her know that you cando your job well and support her, you're not competing with her but helping her to achieve a better goal. If she can't help you, you won't help her either, it will be the loss fo both of you, but especially for her b/c she's still in probation.
-labelle(㊣完美的海盗);
2005-12-25{248}(#667049@65)
亲爱的海盗MM, 我就是这么做的。但是她是找事,比方说:我是做高档品销售的,我那天做的销售额是她的5倍,并且把所有我分内的职责全部做完,她就开始在我面前擦垃圾桶,我从来没有见人干过这种事,但是我说:“如果你希望我也擦垃圾桶的话,那么我下次由我来擦垃圾桶。”她说:“ YOU KNOW, THIS IS YOUR PROBLEM, WHY I HAVE TO TELL YOU , WHY YOU CAN’T THINK ABOUT IT BY YOURSELF?
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{232}(#667064@65)
En, she's probabl trying to make trouble for you to cover her incompetence. Honestly I don't know how to deal with this kind of low-mentality-personel myself. Maybe buy her some drinks will do:-P Good luck.
-labelle(㊣完美的海盗);
2005-12-25(#667070@65)
我觉得嫉妒并不是问题,因为我做好了她也有好处。根本的原因是她认为我应该拍她,而我没有。我已经下定决心作好一切分内工作,不理睬她的挑衅,投诉她的行为给经理,并且开始找工作。 MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU !
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25(#667084@65)
这就是她对我说的,她说她以前做事的地方,她FOLLOW ANY INSTRUCTION。 可是我认为,I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH FOLLOWING INSTRUCTION AND TEAM WORK, BUT SHE HAS TO BE FAIR AND SHE CAN’T ABUSE HER POWER
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25(#667068@65)
这是我要投诉的事,您帮我看一下我投诉的有什么问题没有?我有销售记录,证明我的销售额比她高,我该做的都做了,她没做。她要求我做的我也都做了,都有记录。但是有一天我把所有我能想到的事都做了,忘了一件。她来了要我去做那件事。并且已经没有多少时间了。我说:“WHY YOU JUST CAN’T LEAVE ME A NOTE IF YOU ALREADY KNOW?” 她说:“ WHY I HAVE TO LEAVE YOU A NOTE ?I T IS COMMON SENSE 。”当时我正在帮助客人,她让我停止帮助客人,把客人给她,做那个并不是很紧急的事。就凭这个,我足够投诉她ABUSE HER POWER
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{435}(#667161@65)
就这件事而言,如果俺是你们头,俺不会认为她ABUSE HER POWER
-awa(假日快乐);
2005-12-25(#667172@65)
我做工作说不上最好,但肯定比她好,有数字证据为证。问题是她想要我做的事情让我很烦心,比方说我和原来的小头(我们相处极好)有很多东西是固定放在哪的,她来了就要按照她个人的喜好改了(看上去是略好一点),并告诉我应该照她意思去放,我就是这些东西记不住,她就说:“ YOU KNOW WHY I AM FIDGET ? BECAUSE I TOLD YOU SO MANY TIMES TO PUT THIS ONE HERE, THIS STUFF HERE, YOU PUT THEM BACK AGAIN !I AM FIDGET BECAUSE OF YOU !”这种事情让人烦死了,跟工作一点关系没有的事情。
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{316}(#667130@65)
这是我要投诉的事,您帮我看一下我投诉的有什么问题没有?我有销售记录,证明我的销售额比她高,我该做的都做了,她没做。她要求我做的我也都做了,都有记录。但是有一天我把所有我能想到的事都做了,忘了一件。她来了要我去做那件事。并且已经没有多少时间了。我说:“WHY YOU JUST CAN’T LEAVE ME A NOTE IF YOU ALREADY KNOW?” 她说:“ WHY I HAVE TO LEAVE YOU A NOTE ?I T IS COMMON SENSE 。”当时我正在帮助客人,她让我停止帮助客人,把客人给她,做那个并不是很紧急的事。就凭这个,我足够投诉她ABUSE HER POWER
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{435}(#667150@65)
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-ccz(高山流水);
2005-12-25(#667176@65)
Propose a talking with her and see what is problem or misunderstanding between you.
-ccz(高山流水);
2005-12-25(#667120@65)
这是我要投诉的事,您帮我看一下我投诉的有什么问题没有?我有销售记录,证明我的销售额比她高,我该做的都做了,她没做。她要求我做的我也都做了,都有记录。但是有一天我把所有我能想到的事都做了,忘了一件。她来了要我去做那件事。并且已经没有多少时间了。我说:“WHY YOU JUST CAN’T LEAVE ME A NOTE IF YOU ALREADY KNOW?” 她说:“ WHY I HAVE TO LEAVE YOU A NOTE ?I T IS COMMON SENSE 。”当时我正在帮助客人,她让我停止帮助客人,把客人给她,做那个并不是很紧急的事。就凭这个,我足够投诉她ABUSE HER POWER
-xianingxin(xianingxin);
2005-12-25{435}(#667137@65)
No, 劝你别投述。等你把事做的无匹漏时在做其它吧。你要想进攻,就不要留弱点给对方。
-ccz(高山流水);
2005-12-25(#667166@65)
Emotional person has disadvantage in such situation. Strongly suggest you write down what you need to say, focus on how you want to help her to build the team, write down some constructive suggestion is better thancomplaining each other. This will also show your initiativeness and willingness to make compromise.
-labelle(㊣完美的海盗);
2005-12-25{99}(#667173@65)