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Thanks a lot for your comments.
Life is not easy. I just feel ver tired with him. I am thinking about what if...
I never think about leave him. I mentioned it a lot, but not mean it. He is a nice man. He will never leave us. His EQ is much much higher than me. His attitude is : what ever you are: crazy, mad, ugly... you are my wife. He is not going anywhere, and you are not going anywhere. We are together... I feel comfortable with him, because I can be myself. I hurted him a lot I believe when I was mad.
Is he a good husband? I do not think so. He let me take too much responsibility, too much on my shoulder. I am not a strong woman. In my mind, man is the one who takes care of family financially. Because woman has to have baby, taking care of the housework. That's a lot of work too. If you asked me to do both, that's too much. I can't take it. If I take it and without any complain, It's just impossible...to me.
Now, I think I will support him to go back to school. That means the whole family is on my shoulder.
I do everything. I feel " wu2 nai4". But I will do it. I never think that I would be one who support a family. It's just amazing. I feel pround of myself. Thanks a lot, guys.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
Thanks a lot for your comments.
Life is not easy. I just feel ver tired with him. I am thinking about what if...
I never think about leave him. I mentioned it a lot, but not mean it. He is a nice man. He will never leave us. His EQ is much much higher than me. His attitude is : what ever you are: crazy, mad, ugly... you are my wife. He is not going anywhere, and you are not going anywhere. We are together... I feel comfortable with him, because I can be myself. I hurted him a lot I believe when I was mad.
Is he a good husband? I do not think so. He let me take too much responsibility, too much on my shoulder. I am not a strong woman. In my mind, man is the one who takes care of family financially. Because woman has to have baby, taking care of the housework. That's a lot of work too. If you asked me to do both, that's too much. I can't take it. If I take it and without any complain, It's just impossible...to me.
Now, I think I will support him to go back to school. That means the whole family is on my shoulder.
I do everything. I feel " wu2 nai4". But I will do it. I never think that I would be one who support a family. It's just amazing. I feel pround of myself. Thanks a lot, guys.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net