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枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 做父母的碰到过类似的问题吗?想听听你们的经验。先谢了。
-sylgreen(Sylvie);
2002-2-12
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If I were uI would trust little boy, but pay attention to his behavior in the future.
1. you have no reason not to believe him so far
2. He is only five, trust him is better than judge him groundlessly
3. Let him know it's important to tell the truth, and you do trust him this time
-mssg(mssg);
2002-2-12
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我的女儿有时也有这个问题。我的解决办法见内。女儿太小,有时分不清时间概念、先后顺序和现实与想象,并不是诚心要说谎。遇到类似问题,我会问她一些细节性的问题,比如你在路上看到什么了?你的手冻成什么样子了?是红了还是都动不了?等等之类,有助于你从细节分析他说的哪些话是真的,哪些是自相矛盾的。既使他说了谎,也要分析他为什么这样做。和他讲道理。不要小看孩子的理解能力,其实你说的道理他能懂百分之九十。千万不要凶他,那才真正教会他去撒谎。
-jiahua(加华);
2002-2-12
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完全同意。
-rollor(Rollor);
2002-2-13
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谢谢!你们的建议很不错。
-sylgreen(Sylvie);
2002-2-12
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Trust your son! But did he know TIME? Anyway, it is too difficult for a five years old to makeup such a long story!
-aabbcc(abc);
2002-2-14
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