Well said. It is not the fault of marriage system, it is the weakness of human nature.What is your game plan? How to be an attractive rose for ever? For ever- there is no such thing as for ever. By being self-protective, by no giving your love in full so you can always be cherished?
-rainorcolour(Clouds);
2014-12-6{199}(#20303@30)
What a pity, you didn't get my point...never mind though:-)
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20304@30)
I do believe in love but just don't believe marriage, I have nothing to lose without a marriage as long as we two love each other right?
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20306@30)
Marriage is a prsion, it is meant to give you security.I know you do believe in love, but how can you make sure that you don't lose your love? The moment he knows you love him, or you tell him you love him, you start to lose him. Men don't cherish what they have.
-rainorcolour(Clouds);
2014-12-6{208}(#20307@30)
Then leave him, isn't that easy?
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20308@30)
Keep looking for the next one, I guess? Sounds good.
-rainorcolour(Clouds);
2014-12-6(#20309@30)
You bet, I don't want to be dying rose ever.
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20310@30)
Then how long will each relationship last, for the sake of discussion? 1 year?
-rainorcolour(Clouds);
2014-12-6(#20311@30)
People saying that true love could only last 18 months, let's testify if it is truth :-P
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20312@30)
The whole love searching never ends. We don't cherish what we have. As soon as we fall in love, we fall out of love.
-rainorcolour(Clouds);
2014-12-6(#20313@30)
Change the logic, as soon as we fall out of love, we fall in love okay? :D
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20314@30)
Agree. It is a closed cycle. If you like it, enjoy it. If you don't, get out of it.
-rainorcolour(Clouds);
2014-12-6(#20315@30)
What a pity is that even people like it they just don't have the guts to step out of the marriage, suffering the bitterness might be very tasty eh :P
-jjflower(花儿);
2014-12-6(#20316@30)